In the 2015 film, The Revenant, actor Leonardo DiCaprio portrays an early 19th century frontiersman whose companions abandon him in the wilderness. The film is partially based on the real-life story of Hugh Glass. According to some historical accounts, rather than enact revenge when he returned, Glass forgave those who had wronged him and went on with his life.

If Hugh Glass can forgive after surviving such an ordeal, can we learn from his example?

There are many reasons to feel wronged, both large and small. Perhaps a coworker lied to cheat you out of a promotion, or maybe a partner was unfaithful. The need for vengeance is a natural reaction, but it can also cloud our thinking. Just as there are reasons to feel vindictive, there are reasons for forgiveness, including healthier and better relationships, reduced stress, improved heart health and higher self-esteem.

Without forgiveness, we often find ourselves locked in the past, struggling to find peace within our minds. We pass up new opportunities that arise and deny ourselves the chance to grow. If you’re struggling to find some forgiveness in your heart, here are some things to consider:

• How have you reacted, and what effect has this had on your life, your health and your well-being?
• How is holding on to that grudge benefitting you?
• Who is being hurt by holding onto it?

Learning to forgive isn’t easy, and it doesn’t come overnight. Gradually though, we can move to a point where we’re concentrating on what we’ve done to define our lives, not what someone else has done. That’s where the real forgiveness begins.

Is your vocabulary listless and worn out? Are your everyday words as bland and boring as yesterday’s meatloaf? Are you tired of explaining your same routine when you could be elucidating on your deportment?

Many studies have shown that a strong vocabulary is one of the most important factors in career advancement. If you’re looking to expand your vocabulary, and you have the time, you could simply heft a large dictionary and start at the beginning, looking up words from agastopia to zoanthropy as you go. But if you’re like most people (short on time and wary of hefting), there is an easier alternative.

It’s the One Word a Day plan. This plan not only lets you learn at your own pace, but lets you fully absorb the word’s meaning. With that greater understanding, you can make your vocabulary grow exponentially. And of course you’ll want to figure out how to incorporate the new words in your daily life.

One word a day may seem small, but it can add up pretty quickly, and won’t take up much of your time. These days you don’t even have to worry about that heavy dictionary. There are multiple websites that provide free word of the day services such as:

• Meriam-Webster’s Online Word of the Day
• WordThink
• NY Times Word of the Day

The One Word a Day plan is simple and easy to use. If you’re looking to bolster your vocational habilitation or you’re just tired of trying to appear magnanimous when your friend once again trounces you at Scrabble, check it out.

“No you don’t need that designer book bag or that pen set! Do you see the price tag?”

“But all the other kids—”

“You’ll just lose them like you did last year.”

If you’ve heard a conversation like this around the store lately, it can only mean it’s back-to-school time. For many parents it can be a bit of a nightmare. You want your kids to have everything they need to succeed, but your wallet can only take so much. And then there’s the nagging thought in the back of your mind about how long it’ll be before that expensive lunch box gets left behind.

Here are some tips that may help you make that dreaded shopping excursion into a positive experience for your family.

Plan ahead. There are hordes of people in the store all hunting the same bargains as you are. Beat them to it by taking advantage of early-bird specials, online discounts and summer sales.

Bring a friend. Maybe stores will offer a discount if you buy in bulk, or will have two-for-one sales. Shopping with a friend lets you utilize these discounts and share extra expenses such as gas or shipping.

Include your kids. You’re not going to agree on everything, but including your kids in your shopping not only gives them a sense of responsibility towards the items you buy, but also teaches them about prioritizing and budgeting.

Back to school shopping may not be the most wonderful time of the year, but if you plan it out right, you can whip through it with your wallet a litter fatter and your kids a little wiser.

The summer heat is rippling. You can hear the melodic tones of the ice cream truck from several blocks away. You grab up your money and run to follow. There you see a colorful array of sweet and delicious goodness awaiting you. Which one? It may be one of the hardest decisions of your childhood.

Why not try all of the above? Many of these summertime staples are easy to make at home, so you and your family can enjoy a cool treat any time, all without the sweaty sprint after the truck.

Here are some ways to create the perfect Pop right in your kitchen:

• Watermelon and summer go hand in glove, so celebrate the season with refreshing watermelon pops.
• These easy to make peach popsicles are a great way to make your summer peachy-keen.
• Popsicles aren’t just for kids.  If you like yours with a little extra kick, try these Tinto De Verano red wine popsicles or maybe cool and refreshing sangria.
• The passion tea lemonade so popular at Starbucks can now be yours on a stick.
• If you believe warm weather is no excuse not to reach for a stiff cup of joe, this iced-coffee popsicle may be just what you’re looking for.
• Didn’t get a chance to hit that beach this year? Well, you can bring some of the tropics to you with these pineapple and orange popsicles.

These ideas are just the beginning. With a little experimentation, you can find your perfect flavor combination and let the other kids run after the truck.

Well, the kids are out of school, and now your thoughts have turned to how they’re going to spend their summer. With a ton of warm days ahead, there are plenty of activities to go around— camps, seminars, vacations and more.

That doesn’t mean the ‘book’ learning has to stop though. Here are some fun summer books that will keep them entertained and maybe even teach them a thing or two.

Real Friends by Shannon Hale and illustrated by LeUyen Pham. A shy bookworm as a child, the author recalls her days negotiating a slippery slope of friendships, school bullies and an unpredictable older sister.  

The Girl Who Drank the Moon by Kelly Barnhill. Winner of the 2017 Newbery Award, this book tells the tale of a special girl and the witch who raised her.

The Wolf’s Boy by Susan Williams Beckhorn.  Kai, an outcast from his tribe, joins forces with a young wolf to survive the coming Ice Age winter.

The Book of Mistakes by Corinna Luyken.  Sometimes the worst blunders can lead to the most amazing things. Join the author as she takes you on an illustrated look at some the biggest mistakes in history and how they turned out.

Step Up to the Plate, Maria Singh by Uma Krishnaswami. It’s 1945, and Maria Singh, the daughter of Indian and Mexican immigrants, dreams of playing softball in the first girls’ team in Yuba City, California. She’ll soon find she has a far greater challenge in front of her. Does she have what it takes to meet it?

So pick up some of these for your kids. There’s still plenty of time to get in some good summer reading!

If life gives you lemons… well, you know the rest. People quickly found lemonade was a great way to beat the heat, and from there it went on to become the summer classic we all know and love.

So how do you like your lemonade? If you’re looking for the best lemonade ever, or maybe a new twist, here are a few recipe ideas, all of them made from natural ingredients rather than concentrate.

Classic lemonade is pretty simple: just water, fresh lemons, sugar and some ice. The art comes in getting these ingredients blended together in just the right proportions, and these classic recipes from Taste of Home and Allrecipes do just that.

If you’re trying to cut down on the sugar, why not use a natural substitute? This orange lemonade recipe uses the naturally sweeter orange to do the job.

You don’t have to stop with oranges either. For something a little different, try adding some new flavors to create lavender or peach lemonade.

For a little extra kick, you can try sparkling ginger lemonade.

Want your lemonade to be patriotic as well as refreshing? This red, white and blue lemonade may be just the thing.

You can even get more exotic if you want with just a little bit of extra effort. J. Kenji López-Alt is the managing culinary director of Serious Eats, and has a few new takes on lemonade including spicy strawberry jalapeno lemonade and Brazilian lemonade.

With all these choices, you’re bound to find just the flavor for you. Have a great and refreshing summer!