The Art and Comfort of Letter Writing
Those that say the art of letter writing has vanished clearly haven’t seen some of the novel-length texts we send to each other these days. But we’re not talking about texts. We’re talking about letter-writing the old-fashioned way. It still exists, and it can be surprisingly fun.
Writing by hand is different than email or text. It’s slower, allowing you to consider more carefully what you are writing. The result is a more thoughtful, deeper communication and frequently leads to a more lasting bond. If you look at some modern-day pen-pals, their relationship may stretch over decades.
It’s also therapeutic. By actually writing, instead of firing off a series of emails and texts to sixteen different people at the same time, you give your full attention to the person you’re writing to. While thinking of them, you’ll naturally want to emphasize the good things that have happened to you rather than the bad things, which can lead to a more positive and happier world view. There’s a reason many therapists emphasize writing as a way to heal mentally.
If you’re the type who looks for practical as well as personal applications, letter writing has plenty to offer. Writing a letter forces you to slow down and think logically and then transcribe those thoughts in a clear, coherent order. It’s exactly the type of skill that will serve you well in the working world.
Letter writing may be the perfect bridge between the old and the new. Take up your pen and paper and see where your handwriting can take you. You might be surprised.