In a 1966 speech, Robert F. Kennedy referred to an ancient curse. Loosely translated it went something like: “may you live in interesting times.” The speech may have been in the 1960’s, but it feels like Kennedy could have been talking about 2020 just as easily. It’s been an ‘interesting’ year. In all the fervor about Covid-19 and the summer’s protests, it’s easy to forget that it’s not the first time our country has been through tumultuous times.

On Tuesday, September 11^th, 2001 America suffered an unprecedented terrorist attack and our lives changed irrevocably. Talk to anyone old enough to remember and most of them will be able to tell you where they were on that day. The extra paperwork we have to go through to complete many business transactions and the creation of the Department of Homeland Security are just a few of the legacies of the day that’s simply become known as 9-11 or Patriot Day.

This year will mark the nineteenth anniversary of those events in New York, DC, and in Somerset County, Pennsylvania. It’s important that we don’t forget. A simple, easy way is to take a moment of silence for the nearly three-thousand souls that perished that day. And if you have a flag, be sure to fly it at half-mast that day.

And if you feel like getting out and about, there’s an even better way, because Patriot Day isn’t just a time to remember. It’s also a National Day of Service. Do something for others in a way that’s meaningful to you. Help a neighbor, feed the homeless or donate blood. The possibilities are limitless.

When we help others, we do our part to make our communities and our country stronger. What could be more patriotic than that?

Even though it may not feel like it quite yet, Labor Day marks the unofficial end of summer. It’s the last major warm-weather holiday of the year. With the current Covid-19 pandemic still affecting many parts of the country, things may be a little different this year, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy that precious three-day weekend.

It might be your last chance of the year to enjoy water parks, county fairs and many of the other fleeting summer attractions. You may even be able to do so for less money than you expect since the hospitality and travel industries know Labor Day is the last big bash of summer and will frequently offer travel discounts. There is also Covid-19 to consider. You don’t have to let Coronavirus derail your plans, but it’s a good idea to check the times and availability of the attractions you want to go to, and if you do go, be sure to take the proper precautions.  

Of course if travel just isn’t in the cards for you this year, there are still plenty of ways to stay home and enjoy yourself. Why not a backyard barbeque? Check out some of these great recipes from Food Network. After all, staying home doesn’t mean you have to go hungry.

How did we get this great three-day weekend in the first place? If you’re into history, the weekend might be a great chance to visit museums, either virtually or in-person, and check out the true history of Labor Day and the contributions of generations of American workers who made it possible. To help get you started, here are some Labor Day facts. 

The Covid-19 pandemic may have upended 2020, but Labor Day is a great holiday at just the right time. The searing summer temperatures have loosened their grip on many parts of the country and the sky is a perfect shade of sapphire blue. 

Go out or stay home and enjoy. Just don’t let it pass you by!

The unfortunate reality is that few things in life are free. If you’re going to do anything, let alone do it well, you’re going to need a source of funding. School activities are no exception. Local governments are often strapped for cash, especially now, so fundraising is often a crucial way to fill in the budgetary gaps.

In order to be successful at fundraising, whether for your local school or any other cause, you have to take a careful assessment of your skills and examine how you can best contribute. Just because the other parents in the PTA were going door to door selling candy bars, doesn’t mean it’s going to work for you. Not everyone is a born salesman. Maybe you have an eye for website design, or you can create an attractive poster like nobody’s business. Utilizing your best skills will leave you feeling far more satisfied with your effort and make those efforts much more effective.

Don’t be afraid to think outside the box either. Sure the local athletics booster club may have done a carwash for years, but it’s not the only way to raise awareness and generate much-needed funds. What about a social media campaign or an online kickstarter campaign? How about an online bake sale or a virtual charity run? Just because it hasn’t been done doesn’t mean it can’t work. You might even start your own tradition. 

Fundraising might be a necessity, but it doesn’t mean it has to be a chore. It is a great way to get involved in a cause. It’s also a way for you to use creative solutions to help with some of your community’s needs and to meet some wonderful people along the way.

“Life isn’t about finding yourself. It’s about creating yourself.”

        ~ George Bernard Shaw

With the way the coronavirus pandemic has disrupted the school year, it may be a challenging time for your budding young actor or actress. They say the show must go on, but that can be pretty difficult to do when the local theatre is locked down. 

As with any support for the performing arts, the best way you can help is to stay informed and stay involved. That means reaching out to your school, and more importantly, to your school’s drama director. If they’re any good at what they do, they’ll want to help. They’ll be able to tell you what you can do to help your child’s thespian career take the next step and they’ll be able to tell you what you can do to support their drama department. 

Different school districts will have different needs. They might ask for a financial contribution, but don’t be surprised if you’re asked to help build some scenery or sew a costume. Many drama departments, especially those in less affluent school districts, need all the help they can get. 

Of course you don’t have to stop there. Raise awareness of your school’s drama department through social media. Reach out to potential sponsors. Hold a fundraiser. If your school’s theatre is closed, get creative by hosting a play in your backyard. The possibilities are endless. It’s an opportunity to make a difference in your community, and a chance to put a little extra drama in your life in a good way.

The coronavirus has created a rough time for sports fans. Baseball and basketball have had to cancel a large part of their seasons. Hockey has fared no better, and even the mighty NFL has had to suspend all of their normal summer activities. It’s not much better at the local level. Some schools are cautiously optimistic that they can soon resume normal activities, while other districts are considering canceling their sports seasons all together. 

How can you help? The first part is staying connected. Check in with your child’s coach or athletic director. Does your child need special equipment? Training? If their coach isn’t available, find ways you can help fill the gap. Educate yourself about what your child needs to compete and try to make sure they have it.

Try to be a mentor. For many kids who are active in sports, their routine has been disrupted. Talk to them about overcoming adversity. A reality of sports is that you don’t always win, and things don’t always go the way you expect. Now may be the perfect time to help your child with the mental aspects of competition. 

If there is a silver lining to be found in a world without sports being played, it’s that the break provides a chance to upgrade sports facilities. Bleachers need to be replaced, fields resurfaced, and athletic equipment needs to be replaced. If you’re serious about helping, why not consider donating to an athletic booster club at your child’s school? It’s the perfect time to get the maximum benefit from it. 

Sure, sports at your child's school have been disrupted, but that won’t last forever. With your support, your child’s team can be back better than ever. 

To say it’s been a school year unlike any other would be a massive understatement. Of course, it’s been challenging for you, but it’s been equally challenging for your kids. To get them back into some semblance of a routine, you may be looking for some of the usual school activities they used to engage in— band, football practice, what have you. 

To get back to normal, you first need to know what’s going on. Information is your best friend. The first and best way is to go online. Check your school’s website for updates so you can get a sense of what’s been canceled, what’s still on schedule and what’s still up in the air. Don’t just stop there, however. Check the websites of other schools in your district. Events may have been moved or rescheduled. 

Your child’s teachers are another great resource. You probably already have a good idea of which teachers handles what activities. You know who the art director is, the head of the school drama department or the football coach. If you can’t find satisfactory information on the school’s website, don’t hesitate to reach out to these teachers. If anyone will know, it’s them. 

The coronavirus pandemic has caused a lot of changes, so don’t just stop with the usual education suspects. Reach out to your county’s parks and rec. department as well. Maybe your school isn’t hosting band camp this year, but instead has ‘farmed’ it out to the county to administer. You won’t know unless you ask. 

Finally, check with other parents. If they don’t know, maybe they can at least point you in the right direction. Even though it may feel like the world has turned upside down, there are plenty of activities going on. You may have to do a little digging to find your new normal, but it’s out there if you look.